What I did when I wasn't online

IMG_5303 For the third summer in a row I have suspended my Facebook account. At the same time I eliminated posting to Twitter, Linkedin ( Admission: I was involved in some interesting heated discussions regarding Design Unicorns ) and Instagram  ( I do have a lot of shots saved for later).

Many have asked me why I do this, and the simple answer is

I need less distractions, digital distractions.

Actually, I need less distractions, period, and this seemed like a good place to start

Part of the break was to document what I actually did and get an idea of what the tradeoff has been. Granted some of these things may have done in part otherwise, but nowhere close to this the list below.

I think the biggest difference I noted by eliminating social media was that things slowed down considerably and has allowed me to have time for focus, reflection and reading.

Good things, basically. And it didnt cost anything.

Some highlights

An excellent overview of collaboration, the design process and the role of conflict in this process Design Together

I really can’t recommend this book enough Notes to a Software Team Leader

From reading this book, I got the tip of another book  Mindset, which I also found very interesting. The discussion  of Growth and Fixed mindsets was spot on and I recommend this book to anyone with school aged children.

I didn't completely make it through On Looking: Eleven Walks with Expert Eyes. An entertaining book about how to 'see' the world around you by following experts around one block in NYC.

I watched this great documentary about NYC street photographers Everybody Street that I can highly recommend.

If you like Italy or Steve Coogan, or both, the film A Trip to Italy is worth watching.

In preparation for M and my trip to California I re watched Sideways - great movie.

My advice for becoming a UX designer

Nice description the visual aspect of Design - The Perception of Design is How Something Looks. This is something that comes up in my work on a daily basis.

I thought this was interesting read about restaurants and how they use psychology to manipulate customers.

Since I had taken a break from most social media I thought this view of what different social media platforms does to you as a person as telling. I can agree with a large part of what the author says.

The Men Who Made Us Spend - This compelling three part BBC documentary explores the fears we've always had about consumer culture.

Oh yeah, and I caught up on some blog posts here and here (warning, geek posts)

Actual physical social interactions:

M and I tried to be active during this month and the super Swedish weather helped in this regard.

After visiting Rosendahls trägård on the way back we had a spontaneous dinner at Oaxen Slip on their outdoor deck. Oaxen Slip is, in my opinion, one of the best restaurants in Stockholm at the moment.

Visited some very good friends at their summer house on Muskö in the Swedish archipelago.

Visited Per Axbom twice at his wifes summer house in Bro. They have an incredible deck and are generous hosts.

Finally, we finished July off (actually the 1 of August) by attending the Stockholm Music and Arts Festival on friday to catch Chrissie Hynde and Jill Johnsson

So there you have it. I will definitely repeat this next year.

Jag är nöjd.